What’s your story? Have you started writing it yet? Maybe you suspect you have a story inside you, but don’t know where to start. Or you’re having doubts about whether it’s even worth telling. Perhaps you’ve attempted a draft, but now find yourself wondering if what you’ve written is any good. Wherever you are on this journey, here are five quotes to encourage you (and me) to stop procrastinating and put pen to paper. Or fingers to keyboard. Or voice to recording device. It doesn’t matter how you do it. It’s just important that you do.
Because your story matters.
Charles de Lint’s words speak of the unique perspective each of us brings to the world. It can be tempting, though, to listen to that voice that whispers, Not good enough, to think, Who am I kidding? I should just give up now. Especially when we compare ourselves to others – a more published novelist, a popular blogger or an expert in our area of interest. Self-doubt creeps in. We see deficiencies instead of strengths.
Consider, then, Anne Lamott’s words:
Ernest Hemingway is a little more blunt:
If Anne Lamott and Ernest Hemingway can acknowledge ‘terrible first efforts’ then surely we can treat ourselves more gently. It was only after I gave myself permission to write ‘terrible first efforts’ that I was able to develop a consistent writing routine. Until then, procrastination and self-doubt often won out. In a variation of Hemingway’s words, I say, ‘All my first drafts are crap, and that’s okay. Making the words sing – that’s what editing is for.’ Don’t get me wrong, procrastination, self-doubt – and distraction – still challenge me at times. The difference is that I now turn up to the page whether I feel like it or not.
Part of my daily practice is to write three pages longhand, as Julia Cameron encourages in her book The Artist’s Way. I regularly open my journal (Cameron calls them ‘morning pages‘) with no idea what to write. I often start with phrases like, ‘finding it difficult to settle down to it’ or ‘don’t know where to start today.’ But there is something about just beginning, writing regardless of how rough the words sound. The critical part is simply putting pen to paper. And somehow, most days, I write my way into writing.
My morning pages become a way to figure out what I have to say. Then I am able to switch on my laptop and begin drafting.
But even after I have finished a piece of writing, it’s not long before the inner critic once again whispers (or shouts) in my ear. It’s just a question of time, so when it happens to you, remember this:
Once again, my Five Faves have turned into six. And here’s another (I couldn’t go past fellow Australian Bryce Courtney):
I’d love to hear about your experience of turning up to the page and discovering what it is you have to say, what stories only you can tell.
Just begin.
Wonderful post! I agree that’s it’s sometimes hard to start writing. I guess I need to just buy some “bum glue” and get to it! 🙂
Yes! That ‘bum glue’ can seem really hard to come by at times, but highly recommended. For me nothing else is as effective – although Natasha Lester has written a useful post over on her blog, about not neglecting ‘thinking time’ either. Good luck with finding that ‘bum glue’ and getting into it. Looking forward to reading more of your writing, too.
Great post Melinda with lots of excellent quotes. The Anne Lamott is my favourite, she is a very wise lady when it comes to writing advice.
Thanks, Natasha. I only discovered Anne Lamott recently – I bought her book Bird by Bird after reading about it on your website!
Very encouraging post! Saving it for the days I need the reminder not to over-think my writing. 🙂
I love all of these quotes, especially the ‘No one wants to read this. This has already been said …’ That’s my biggest hurdle to overcome, more so when pressing ‘Publish’. I don’t have trouble writing rubbish—I can write that ’til the cows come home! I need to silence the critics in my ear that tell me ‘That’s not good enough …’ that make me baulk at showing what I’ve written to others.
They are the voices I keep needing to silence too, Louise. I wonder if there is any writer who doesn’t?
Wonderful quotes, and magic advice to keep us having a go – day or night time!
Can’t thank you enough, Melinda, for your wealth of experience and encouragement at our Willagee writing fortnights. I have finished my mum and granma’s reunion story, and have entered it in the Victoria Park “Acknowledge and celebrate Creative Seniors 2016” exhibition to be held at the Victoria Park Centre for the Arts, 12 Kent Street Victoria Park, launching on Sunday 6th November. I have been invited to play the baby harp I carved, during the opening day. The exhibition of Seniors’ art, stories, photos and crafts is on for 2 weeks to 18th November.
Hi Kate, it’s so nice to hear from you, and great to hear that you’ve entered your story into the exhibition. I’d love to come along to the opening and see you play. xx