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6 Degrees of Separation: From Sorrow and Bliss to Lost and Found

Melinda Tognini June 4, 2022 12 Comments

Welcome back to the bookish version of Six Degrees of Separation, where we all start with the same book but end up somewhere different depending on the way our subconscious makes bookish connections.

This month’s starting book is Sorrow and Bliss by Meg Mason, which was shortlisted for the 2022 Women’s Prize for Fiction. One reviewer commented that it is both “charming and irreverently funny” and “sad, moving and hard-hitting”. Another appreciated that Mason “portrayed mental illness in its complicated and realistic light”.

First We Make the Beast Beautiful by Sarah Wilson also explores the subject of mental health, specifically about anxiety. Wilson’s book is a mix of memoir, exploration of ideas, research, interviews with others, all of which has the feel of both a series of fragments and the meandering of an extended lyric essay.

I’ve been reading this book not only because of its subject matter but because my current research is around the form and structure of life writing texts that explore social issues. It’s also the reason why I’ve just started reading Eating With My Mouth Open by Sam Van Zweden (in addition to a wonderful interview I heard of Van Zweden talking to Astrid Edwards on The Garret: Writers on Writing podcast).

In the first chapter, Van Zweden writes, “This isn’t a recovery story – God I’m so weary of recovery stories. I’m tired of ‘the journey’. In my experience things sometimes get better or they change shape, but they aren’t fixed … This is not a recovery story. Perhaps it’s a love story instead” (p. 2.).

Trent Dalton has written a collection of stories about the myriad, complex and messy expressions of love in his book simply titled Love Stories. He undertook this project by sitting on a street corner with his typewriter and asked those passing by, “Can you please tell me a love story?”

Sasha Wasley’s new novel, A Caravan Like a Canary, is a love story of sorts, but it’s about a lot more too, including the impact of traumatic childhood events, messy family relationships and a physical journey in the form of a road trip across the protagonist’s home state.

Whenever I think of road trips, I can’t help thinking about the picture book, Are We There Yet? by Alison Lester, which mirrors a road trip around Australia that I took with my family the year I turned 12. I kept a journal that year, which I still had until just a few years ago but now cannot find anywhere; I’m hoping it’s only lost temporarily.

Another book about things that are lost and found, which coincidentally involves a road trip is Lost and Found by Brooke Davis. After becoming lost in a department store, seven-year-old Millie Bird is found by Agatha Pantha and Karl the Touch Typist, who then drive across the country in an effort to reunite Millie with her Mum.

This month, I  meandered between between fiction and non-fiction, touching on themes of mental health, love, journeys and road trips, but primarily within the context of contemporary Australia.

Over to You

Where will six degrees of separation lead you?

You can head over to booksaremyfavouriteandbest to see where it led other readers – or join in and pop your chain into the comments section of this post.

Next month’s chain will begin with Wintering by Katherine May.

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12 Comments

  1. Kate @ booksaremyfavouriteandbest says:
    June 4, 2022 at 12:39 pm

    Love the basis for your last link 🙂 and will be adding your first two books to my reading list.

    Reply
    1. Melinda Tognini says:
      June 5, 2022 at 8:47 am

      I would love to know what you think once you have finished them – I always love seeing your perspective on the books you read x

      Reply
  2. Whispering Gums says:
    June 4, 2022 at 1:48 pm

    Very interesting chain, Melinda. And I particularly like your last two! How fascinating that we both chose Lost & Found. It’s not like it’s a book on the tip of people’s tongues.

    Reply
    1. Melinda Tognini says:
      June 5, 2022 at 8:46 am

      I found that fascinating too – especially given the reasons for the connection were totally different.

      Reply
  3. Margaret 21` says:
    June 4, 2022 at 3:25 pm

    Perhaps because I’m not in Australia, all these books are new to me. An interesting selection, so I’ll keep my eyes open.

    Reply
    1. Melinda Tognini says:
      June 5, 2022 at 8:46 am

      There are so many fabulous writers in Australia (both fiction and non-fiction), so I love being able to share them with others who might be less familiar with them!

      Reply
  4. Davida Chazan says:
    June 4, 2022 at 3:56 pm

    Just lovely, and I see you finished with the book that was the first link in another of the participants’ chains! Cool!

    Reply
    1. Melinda Tognini says:
      June 5, 2022 at 8:45 am

      That was totally co-incidental. I only discovered this when I read Whispering Gum’s chain – it was interesting that our connections were for totally different reasons too.

      Reply
  5. Mary says:
    June 4, 2022 at 5:13 pm

    I love your connections and how they lead to different, thought-provoking books.

    Reply
    1. Melinda Tognini says:
      June 5, 2022 at 8:44 am

      Thank you!

      Reply
  6. Susan Osborne says:
    June 4, 2022 at 6:58 pm

    That quote from Eating with My Mouth Open makes me want to read it. So many cliches around this type of memoir. Her voice is refreshing!

    Reply
    1. Melinda Tognini says:
      June 5, 2022 at 8:43 am

      Yes, it is! The interview I linked to gives a great introduction to her and her story, too.

      Reply

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Apologies for the late reply! I shall go check out your post - even the title is intriguing!
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I haven't read any of the books on your chain (though am reading Orbital currently) but love the clever links... And now adding Writer Laid Bare to my TBR.. my post is here - https://www.ladyinreadwrites.com/two-roads-diverged-in-the-words-with-trivia-twists-too/
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