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Memoir and Family History: A Question of Time

Melinda Tognini September 2, 2024 No Comments

I recently realised that ten years has passed since I published my first (very brief) blog post, here on Treefall Writing. Turns out that so much can change in 10 years, and so much can stay the same.

This has prompted me to think about time in the context of memoir and family history. So, I’ve created 7 prompts that I hope will help you also consider time – and generate new material for your own creative projects.

1. Ten Years

Describe a memory (your own or a character from your manuscript) from a decade ago.

What was the impact of that moment, event or experience?

What role, if any, did it have in where or who you (or your character) are today?

What has changed and what has stayed the same?

What emotions does the memory evoke?

Represent this memory in a creative form of your choice.

2. A Moment in Time

Describe a moment, event or experience that was pivotal or life changing.

What was the impact of that time? In what ways, if any, did it change you?

3. All About Context

Identify two periods of time in your life, or that of an ancestor.

Recall and/or research the social, political or historical context of each time period. What changes occurred between the first and second time periods – or even across your subject’s lifetime?

4. The Ripple Effect

[Photo by Jackson Hendry on Unsplash.]
Small choices or decisions can have ripple effects on a person’s life, in the present and into the future.

Accepting a new job, welcoming a stranger into a gathering, missing a train, auditioning for a community play, learning a musical instrument or taking up a new sport, saying yes to an invitation – none of these are necessarily dramatic turning points, but all them have the potential to alter something in a person’s life.

Brainstorm such moments in your own life or that of an ancestor. Choose one and explore how it has affected or altered something, whether it is small or significant.

5. Seasons

[Photos by Simon Berger, Rainhard Wiesinger, Mike Kotsch, Ethan Robertson and Studio Dekorasyon, all sourced from Unsplash.]
Describe a favourite season.

Do so without naming the season. Instead, allow the reader to identify it through your use of the five senses and specific details.

Incorporate the details from this writing exercise into a current work-in-progress.

(If you would like to explore the seasons further  –literally or metaphorically – check out one of my earlier posts, Memoir & Family History: Writing Through the Seasons.)

6. Stop All the Clocks

Write about a time when you or an ancestor wished they could stop time.

7. The Sands of Time

[Photo by Aron Visuals on Unsplash.]
Map out a person’s life (yours or an ancestors) in decades.

Create a scene from each decade to represent your subject at that time in their life.

Consider the following:

  • how has life changed in each ten-year period?
  • how has your subject changed?
  • how are they the same?
  • what is the effect of life’s experiences in the intervening years?

Over to You

How does thinking about time help you develop a scene or chapter in either your current or new project?

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Thank you so much for the 7 writing prompts. I'm the family genealogist and my son wants to do a story for NaNoWriMo. We'll each write a story to end on November 30th. Oh boy! Your prompts will definitely help.
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